Old clothes and a new body

 This is a very snappy title for what will probably be a pretty short, kind of boring entry. So my body is different now. And I don't mind it. I'm very fortunate to have been basically indifferent to the aesthetics of the physical changes (read: didn't care about having breasts when I had them, don't care about not having them now). But sometimes I will be wearing outfits that I wore for years before all of this happened and I will remember how those outfits used to fit and how they used to look. And it's profoundly strange. I liked the way I looked before. I like the way I look now. But, for example, I'll roll over to sleep on my side and I'll remember how my body used to feel in the pajamas I still wear. And I feel the smallest twinge of sadness because it's different now. 

My life is full of moments like this. 

There is a little cat who used to live in my yard, and the night before I started radiation, she came to the front door and yelled until I brought her inside. It had been below freezing for a week, and she was dying. Her name is Zelda, but I call her the tortie, because I've called her the tortie for her whole life. She's a perfect little baby, she's lived around my house since she was a kitten (she's about 8 years old), and given the state she was in when she came to my door, I don't know how she made it. She could barely walk. She was starving. It was so, so cold. She's better now, but she's inside. She's happy, and she is adjusting well to life in the house, but she still sometimes stares out at the yard and paws at the window. But she can't go back outside. Her health is different now, her situation is different. The world is different. Obviously I relate to this, and the most incredible thing here is that this is all true, and not a story I've made up as a metaphor for my cancer. 

My life is good, and I am happy, and I also miss the life I had before that was good in a different way. 

EDITED TO ADD: The little tortie made it until August of 2024 and then passed away while I was on a trip. My very good friend Amanda was watching the cats and buried the tortie is a beautiful spot in the yard. The tortie loved being outside. She was an incredibly alive little thing, she was so friendly, and I miss her every day. I am writing this in January of 2025. She has been gone for months. I still look for her in the house, in the neighborhood. She's gone but still here, you know?